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When was the last time you picked up a pen and wrote a letter in long hand? Grainy, silky or just plain vanilla, I miss the feel of personal correspondence. In looking through some old photographs and family memorabilia, I came across a poem my mother sent me when I was working overseas. While holding the yellowed paper in my hands, I had an overwhelming sense of her presence. I wasnt simply reading her words; I was hearing her voice.

Our family lived near the ocean and as a child I loved wandering off the beach and meandering along the boardwalk. On the back of a faded photo of a beach outing, my father had written in his unique calligraphic style, We removed 13 splinters from Suzys feet. I immediately relived being carried off in my fathers arms to the first aid station where I ate enough Tootsie Rolls between wailings to overshadow any negative aspects of the foot surgery. And I remembered what a terrific swimmer he was.

I still have my older brother Bobby's letter sent while he was waiting to be shipped out from Okinawa to Japan during World War II. The enemy was unyielding, the invasion force was huge and not many GIs were expected to survive the first wave on to the beaches. But true to his nature Bobby didn't want us to worry. His letter was upbeat with funny doodles. By the time we received the letter the U.S. had dropped atomic bombs on Hiroshima and Nagasaki signaling the end of the war. My brother went to Japan as an occupier, not an invader, and he lived to tell his story. These intimate moments are the stuff of life that connect us to each other; they give us a real sense of our own history. For our Iraq and Afghanistan GI's, email is a blessing, but without the smell of the stationery.

Today we live in a no touch world. Send an electronic greeting card or an email, instant message a friend with all those blah, blah acronyms on to the next multi-task. Were too busy for personal notes. Its so much easier to be personally disconnected, while remaining impersonally connected to a faceless impersonal world. Not only has writing by hand passed into history, sadly there is a definite disconnect between humans in all areas of life. We complain about the rudeness in our society, but it is precisely this disconnectnot having to look someone in the eye or confront them on the phonewhich encourages the rudeness. Never having to say Im sorry is bs. It lets us off the hook of responsibility for our actions. Were too busy to be civil; were on to the next multitask.

Speaking of multi-tasking, I saw a commercially successful young couple on television reveling in the fact that they each work 80 to 100 hours a week. They are so in love with their jobs they never take a vacation; theyre never without their cell phones and Blackberries. On trains, planes and automobiles, how many folks do you see that are not electronically tethered or otherwise digitally occupied? Ask them what color the flowers are and they cannot tell you.

Consider what humans would look like millennia from now if hearing and seeing were the only senses that developed. We could evolve like the subject of a science fiction story I read as a child. Absent arms and legs, the protagonist was an enormous brain with tiny holes for ears and eyes. Thats a bit of a stretch, but you get my drift. Its easier to plug in and zone out rather than deal with the demands of 21st century life.

Technology frees us to sit back and let someone else, or something else, do what our arms, legs and brains are naturally programmed to do. Unfortunately, while we are enjoying the remarkable attributes technology brings into our lives, we are being blindsided by the scum of society that use technology to lie, cheat, scam or lure our kids into places we dont want them to gofor example, pornography. In an interview with serial killer Ted Bundy just before his execution he stated that unless society deals with pornography, lots of kidsare going to be dead tomorrow. Bundy told his interviewer that every killer he knew through the prison grapevine had been influenced in childhood by pornography. What a chilling thought.

Technology is moving faster than we can imagine. We can only hope the decades to come will bring more planet friendly ways of living with each other and our trains, planes and automobiles. Plugging in neednt mean zoning out. Its our responsibility, our duty to be aware, be very aware of what is happening around us. The more aware we are the more apt we are to get the government we need and the quality of life we deserve.

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